Relax completely addresses the subtle background tension held in our body that’s a part of our “steady-state.” We don’t pay attention to it – it’s the postural status quo when sitting at the computer, or driving the car, or swinging the golf club.
We don’t notice that we aren’t relaxed completely.
It may result from the lean of my posture as my attention locks on the computer screen — the automatic contraction of muscles in shoulders and back to hold my body in the lean. Or the set of my jaw and the rise of my shoulders as I sit stuck in rush hour traffic. We only notice the tension after it adds up to cause discomfort or pain.
During an aikido movement, it’s the sublte tension that happens “of its own accord” as I lean while turning, or when I push or pull against my opponent. We don’t notice the tension, we only notice the outcome — that the movement is awkward or ineffective.
Relax completely begins with awareness of the “status quo” postural tension we carry during everyday actions and activites.